Do not disgrace your husband. Stop nagging him and stop being in the habit of correcting him in front of others. The husband's ego is extremely fragile and hurting him can be overwhelming. It is highly disloyal to talk about your husband behind his back. To become a better wife; pledge your loyalty to your husband, not to your social group or family of origin. Complaining about him to friends and family never solves your problems but only serves to cast your relationship in a negative light. Husbands may bury their heads in the sand, but they are desperate for respect. Don't deny sex. Never use sex as a tool to bargain with your husband. If he wants more sex, open your mind and let him satiate you. It's important to schedule sex into your relationship. Some women feel that sex should be spontaneous but end up just neglecting it. In many relationships, each partner has different expectations regarding the frequency of physical intimacy. The only trick is to find a happy and satisfying middle ground with your husband. Couples who are responsible for meeting their lovers' needs tend to be happier and have healthier physiques