To be beautiful, women must be a “certain way” otherwise they are nothing in society's narrow views. “Perhaps the most surprising result of self-objectification is the difficulty women have in imagining identities and sexualities that are truly our own” (Heldman 67). As sad as it is, women are told that they have to meet a standard to be considered beautiful. Therefore, as long as such a limited definition of beauty exists, women will try to fit into that definition, objectifying and altering themselves until there is nothing left to draw from..